This beautiful little blog from a public service team leader, a participant in one of my workshops, inspired me so much that I thought I’d pass it along.
Breathing New Life Into The Public Service: It Starts With You. That’s the title of the conference I recently attended. Best-selling author, David Irvine was the speaker for the day. He speaks about leadership, organizational culture, accountability and well, life. He inspires me and challenges me almost as powerfully as my faith. I heart David Irvine.
Now, about breathing new life into the Public Service and about how it starts with me. Sigh. I was thinking about passing on what I learned from the conference about organizational culture and how it’s up to me to make it a great one. I could also talk about accountability and how it’s about people being able to count on me. Or about leadership and how I can’t be promoted to be a leader,
I have to earn it.
There’s so much I learned that day and I’m so pumped about it that I want to just blog about it all.
In my eight pages of notes from the session about culture, leadership, accountability and authenticity, there is one thing that I have learned. It’s so simple and so seemingly easy that you might fall off your chair when I tell you. Either that or tilt your head and go, “Really?” Yes. Really.
So here it is. Friends, I’ve simply learned to PAUSE.
In the everyday challenges of work and life, I have learned to pause.
On my way to work, someone cuts me off. Pause.
Someone complains my ear off about something they don’t plan to change. Pause.
I get back my 360 degree feedback. Pause.
I present something I’m passionate about and someone rolls their eyes. Pause.
Pause. Pause. Pause!
It’s fascinating what we can do within an itty-bitty pause.
Within that pause I can choose to embrace full rage and let it ruin my whole day, or shrug it off and let it go.
Within that pause I can choose to participate in boy bashing, work bashing and boss bashing, or exercise my right to excuse myself from a potentially toxic conversation that helps no one.
Within that pause I can choose to find out who gave me a 3.5 (out of 5) score on leadership abilities and hurt them very badly, or humble myself and accept the fact that I’m not perfect and I have oh so many “areas of improvement.”
Within that pause I can choose to let that eye-rolling dude break me down or use him as a stepping stone to break through my insecurities.
Within that pause I can choose to complain or do what I can to help fix the system.
That little pause breathes new life into my reactions. And when I breathe new life into my reactions, I breathe new life into my work… and breathe new life into my team… new life into my department… and yes, breathe new life into the Public Service.”